Listen, lets be honest. The
n95 is the very worst phone you could ever own if you plan on having affair. Consider:
It can be remotely controlled
It has not one but two cameras, both capable of video, front and back
It has a sound recorder that can record for hundreds of hours on a single chip
It has GPS so she can track your address
And it stores info about your call history.
If you're going to have an affair, get a different phone.